With this ring, I thee rape. I have wanted to talk about marital sexual assault for a while but I have not known how to. In my first post here , I make reference to a bit in the bible about a woman's body not being her own. 1 Corinthians 7 v 4. I am not an expert in the bible, not a teacher, minister, counsellor or sex therapist. I am simply an ordinary me. I don't know how to interpret what the bible says. I can only speak from my experience and I am not sure that I have made sense of that either yet. I can't and wont try to teach about bible things because I can't. I can only say how I experienced things that I hear and how they affected me. If you are having sex with your husband and it seems like something is amiss, then something is probably amiss. If you feel forced to have sex with your husband and something is amiss, then something is almost certainly amiss. Coercion and aggression should not be a pert of sex, marriage or life for that matter. My ex...
Life after 17.5 years with a narcissist / psychopath. Coming to understand what happened to me; that it was a real thing. I wasn't imaging it, it has a name and it seriously affected me. Making sense of the chaos, confusion and serious sustained stress I endured every day for 17.5 years.