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The law of boundaries. Law #2 - The Law of Responsibility

In a relationship each person should support the other; they should lift each other up. - Taylor Swift. Meet needs. Limit bad behaviour - Cloud and Townsend (2017). We should support one another and be responsible to one another. We can not and should not be one another. This law is a bit hard to try to understand. I am responsible for my actions and myself. You are responsible for your actions and yourself. Narcissistic partners are responsible for their actions and themselves. However, they don't think so. Firstly, we have a responsibility to love our partners. They have a responsibility to love us.We ought to support them. They ought to support us. Share their joy when they succeed and be alongside them during sadness and anxieties. They should be doing the same for us. We can encourage them when they try to help themselves, such as if they are trying to stop drinking too much or smoking. We can be calming when they are angry and help them cope with what has triggered...